“You only hear what you are ready to hear.”– Abraham-Hicks
In the groundbreaking book Ask and It Is Given, Esther and Jerry Hicks (through the teachings of Abraham) remind us that we are not here simply to gather knowledge—we are here to live fully, to feel deeply, and to create joyfully. The true purpose of life is not struggle or suffering, but satisfaction, fulfillment, and joy.
And it all begins with one powerful understanding:
You create your own reality.
🧠 Real Knowledge Comes from Experience
While it’s valuable to learn through reading, listening, and observing, real wisdom comes through living. Every contrast you experience—every moment of desire, frustration, or joy—adds to your personal understanding.
But life isn’t just about learning through hardship. It’s about the joyful expression of who you truly are. Every moment, you have the choice to tune into your own inner guidance and align with your highest self.
That alignment? It feels like feeling good now.
🙏 “We Are Keeping Our Promise to You”
If you’re reading this and feeling disconnected—unhappy in your relationships, unfulfilled in your work, or out of place in your life—it’s because you’ve temporarily forgotten the most important truth:
You are the creator of your own experience.
You were born knowing this. You arrived in this physical world pulsing with the energy of creation. And any time you feel bad, it's not because life is against you—it’s because you’re moving away from your true self.
You can return to that alignment by learning to live in the present moment, by choosing thoughts that feel good, and by reclaiming your emotional power.
💫 You DO Create Your Own Reality
Here are some fundamental principles from Ask and It Is Given that shape this understanding:
- Freedom is the basis of your life.
- You were born with the innate ability to create.
- Any time someone tries to control or suppress your desires, you feel discord—because it goes against your nature.
- You are the only one who can create in your own experience. No one else can think your thoughts, feel your feelings, or live your life for you.
This is powerful because it means no one else holds your happiness. It's entirely in your hands—and heart.
💖 Emotions: The Key to Manifestation
We usually trust our five senses—sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch. But what about emotion?
According to Abraham, emotions are vibrational interpreters—just like your senses. They give you instant feedback about your alignment with your inner being (or “Source”).
Think of emotions as your personal guidance system.Joy = alignment.Frustration or anger = misalignment.
Here’s a simple analogy:
When you approach a hot stove, your skin tells you it’s hot before you get burned. Similarly, when you're off-track in life, your emotions “burn” a little—not to punish you, but to guide you back to your well-being.
🎯 Use Your Emotions to Feel Your Way Back
Instead of resisting negative emotions or judging yourself for having them, use them.
- If you feel anxious, ask: What thought did I just think that caused this?
- If you feel good, stay there longer. Soak it in. Milk that vibration.
- If you feel off, pivot gently toward a better-feeling thought. You don’t need to go from despair to joy in one leap. Just reach for relief.
Abraham calls this the Art of Allowing—the practice of letting your natural well-being flow by choosing thoughts that align with your source energy.
🌈 The Power of Feeling Good Now
You don’t have to wait until you get the job, the relationship, the money, or the body to feel good. In fact, you must feel good first—because that feeling is what draws the manifestation to you.
“Ask, and it is given.”But the receiving part depends on your vibrational alignment.
Joy is not the result of achievement—joy is the path to it.
✨ Final Thoughts: You Are Meant to Thrive
Life is supposed to be fun.
It’s supposed to be an ongoing adventure of creation, discovery, and emotional growth. The more you honor your emotions, the more you understand your power—and the more effortless your manifestations become.
So don’t wait.
Start feeling better now. Trust your emotions. Own your freedom. And remember:
You are the creator of your reality. And your only job is to feel your way into alignment.